How can I make my bedroom romantic on Valentine's Day?
Whether you are married or dating, Valentine's Day is a special occasion that should be celebrated. When things move to the bedroom, the real magic happens, but are there any ways you can make the experience even better?
We have a few ideas that might help you out. Feel free to borrow our top bedroom picks below for a day to remember.
Upgrade your mattress
Valentine's Day is an excellent opportunity to get rid of your old, uncomfortable mattress for one that helps you sleep and get it on.
Pocket-sprung mattresses like the Silentnight Mirapocket are great for sex because they have lots of bounce, and they are also the most supportive mattresses you can get.
If you like a squishier feel, memory foam is for you. Mattresses like the Giltedge Flex Fusion conform to your body, helping relieve joint pressure.
For the best of both worlds, consider a hybrid mattress. Mattresses like the Giltedge Beds Silk have pocket springs and memory foam layers to support and contour your body. Another good option is the Birlea Bliss.
Get a tufted headboard
Worse, a cold, hard wall!
You can add a headboard to any divan or ottoman bed by choosing a strutted or standing headboard that matches the base size. Alternatively, you can get a wall-mounted headboard that lets you move the base around freely.
Unfortunately, if you have a standard wooden bed frame, you can't add a headboard, but you can soften it with a chunky knitted throw.
Play with bedding textures
Sleeping and getting it on is a physical experience, so it makes sense to use textures that evoke a sense of comfort and warmth.
Interesting textures like faux fur and chunky knitted throws are ideal for top layers that might find their way onto the floor. For your duvet cover, choose a 100% Egyptian cotton cover or go for a smooth silk cover.
Bedding which is soft and compliant, is the way to go for Valentine's Day. Simple patterns are best, or you can go for a solid colour like white.
Set the mood with romantic lighting
Romantic lighting is a great mood-setter! It can make all the difference on Valentine's Day, so it's worth tweaking.
The easiest way to make lighting romantic is red, pink, and purple lighting. You can do this with Phillips Hue or another smart light bulb. The benefit of this approach is it's easy to change the lighting back to normal at any time.
A softer way to set a romantic mood is with candlelight. Dotting fairy lights around your bedroom and house is a simple way to set a romantic tone. Alternatively, get a scented candle that you both love.
Sprinkle a few petals on your bed
The oldest trick in the book for a romantic evening is to sprinkle a few rose petals on the bed. Cleaning them up is annoying, but it's a special gesture that shows you thought about the other person during the day.
You can also sprinkle petals on the floor and around your bedroom door or move them into the bath if that's how you want to start the night.
Play slow music (and keep it low!)
Music is the avenue to the heart, but only when it's suitable and not too loud. You want to be able to hold a conversation without shouting.
A simple way to get the music right is to choose a musical genre your partner enjoys. If you have no idea what they like, play safe with classical or opera. Fast-paced music distracts, so always go for something low and slow.
This classical romance playlist on Spotify is an excellent place to start. Classical FM's list of the 50 greatest classical love songs is also a good read.